The first time Daniel, the man I would eventually marry, spent the night with me, he was brushing his teeth in my bathroom when I heard him ask, "Is this me?" He was looking at my vision board. It featured a stick figure of my future husband with a date, March 1, and two more stick figures with the dates 2015 and 2017. He peeked his head around the corner and looked at me. "Are we having babies in 2015 and 2017?" My heart skipped a beat, but then I responded with confidence: "Yes."