Sharing your negative emotions with your kids is better than hiding them

Popular Science | 10/22/2018 | Staff
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In another study, mothers kept a diary of the emotional expressions they had shown their preschoolers, including details about how they coped with and explained these. The children of mothers who expressed more sadness and tension had higher emotional knowledge, as assessed by their teachers. And in cases where mothers explained the reasons behind their sadness to their child, the child’s prosocial behavior was found to be higher. This is most likely also the case for fathers, it is just that research on parenting has historically been carried out on mothers.

But how can you actually achieve a balanced approach at home? Consider the following three options.

Room - Child - Senses - Something

You are very sad and you have to leave the room to cry. Your child senses something is wrong but doesn’t know what it is.

You are so sad and you can’t stop crying in front of your child.

You...
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